E109: 4 Signs It’s Time to Take A Risk ASAP!

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Dr. Seida 0:00

You're listening to the Loveish podcast. And I'm your host, Dr. Sita hood, Vision architect and licensed therapist. Each week, I'm going to help you to develop the belief and strategy necessary to make an immediate impact on the world by deep diving into topics like mental wellness, faith, relationships, and you guessed it, love. I should mention before we happen to the show, this is not a substitute for a relationship with a licensed therapist. You ready? Let's get it

Dr. Seida 0:39

Welcome back for another episode of the Loveish podcast I am your host, Dr. Theta hood vision architect and licensed therapist, what is in your mug, I have a Starbucks coffee with a splash of creamer and sugar. And mentally I am doing well. I wasn't feeling good last weekend. So I took the time to allow my body to reset. And I feel like I'm very in tune with my body. So I tend to notice fairly quickly when something feels off for me both physically and mentally. So I took a couple of days just to kind of reset and let my body repair. You know, we always talk about optimal wellness and having that scale that we sit at. But how are you feeling? What's going on with you drop it in the comment section. Or if you are listening to this episode, tag me on social media, and let's get the conversation cracking up on me. All right, let's dive into today's topic. Here's the thing about being an ambitious woman. Sometimes your ambitions are far greater than your current capacity. Am I right? Am I right? Anybody below me? Okay? Does that mean that you should stop? No, it just means that you have to manage your overwhelming emotions. And you have to be intentional about when you take calculated risks to build your dream lifestyle. But your life is not going to shift with constant complaining or running around like a chicken with your head cut off girlfriend I got or even repeating the same behavior cycles. And the truth is that I say to people quite often nothing changes if nothing changes, right. And I know that's a quote floating around. I don't know who said it first. I'm just telling you that I quoted so my clients, okay, because we'll sit up here and will complain. But we don't realize that and nothing's gonna change and we don't put our feet to our faith. Okay, now, let me ask you a question. That's just between me and you. Okay, how long? Have you been complaining about life without any real changes happening? How long? Have you been sitting around on it? Take a minute. Think about it. How long have you been sitting back praying for a miracle and hoping that God will come through? I think that we misunderstand Jesus a lot. I think we think that when he gives us an idea, we're not supposed to have to work to make it happen. And that's a lie. We do have work to do. There's work to do to become the person who lives the life you can't stop dreaming about. And there's work to do to co create the life you can't stop dreaming about. So to become the person but also to create the life. But you have to be willing to take the risk in both of those situations. You can't just leave it up to chance. Because if we really want to get into the spiritual side of things, the enemy would love to steal your future and distract you by letting you think your role is to sit back and wait for more instructions. When the truth is, you probably not gonna get instructions for step two, if you haven't even completed step one. Okay, am I right? Am I right? Okay. 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Dr. Seida 6:44

Sign number one, you are feeling stuck or unfulfilled, you feel bored with daily life. And you could be struggling with anxiety and depression because you never seem to catch a break. And you don't know what you're supposed to do to break the current cycle that you're in you tired of going to the same job doing the same work, talking to this same people about this same gossip, feeling the same familiar pressure of deciding what's for dinner at the very last minute, because you were way too swamped with work all day to make a decision earlier. I know. I know. I know, I know. And that is a sign that it's time to take a risk sign number two, a pattern of stagnation or extremely slow progress. So you have this looming feeling that you're failing in life, because you haven't made much progress and his progress according to your standard. You don't even know what progress would really look like. But you feel certain that you haven't achieved it, you haven't made it, you think that because you're in the same or a similar position as last year, too much time has been wasted and you can't recover. You think that these years that you spent doing what you've been doing have been wasted. And in reality, nothing is wasted. Every experience counts. And this is why we talk about living a lifestyle of wellness along the way inside of 2014 vision because you cannot go full force hustling and forget about your needs, you have to be mentally and physically well so that you can become the person you need to become and so that you can have the capacity you need to grow. You're not going to reach it by doing what you're doing. Now you have to be a different person, your habits have to be different, your patterns have to be different sign number three, a sliver of an opportunity for risk comes to you and you reject it, you project that out of tremendous fear, okay, fear that you're going to fail. Fear that your idea might not be good enough fear that you're not enough fear that those people were right about you and your business the whole time, fear, fear, fear, fear slapping you up and down the street, okay? You don't seem to be able to get from underneath fear. I can remember the first time I made my four figure investment and both myself and my business. And I say myself and my business because personal and professional are connected. I was terrified, okay. I was terrified because I didn't have money to be taken a leap so big, but also terrified because I felt an internal pool and unknowing from God, that this was the path that I was supposed to take when I tried to invest in that program. I didn't even know what I would do or whether the program could actually help me like I thought it could. It was speaking my language but I wasn't really sure about the outcome. So I questioned myself for 24 hours straight and this isn't Oh live, I can't hardly sleep tossing and turning. I feel nauseous, it literally was not pretty. I'm adding a map left and right trying to figure it out. But I took the leap of faith. And what I got, as a result was far greater than what I ever anticipated. It catapulted me into my next level in a matter of six months, literally. So I know the power of being afraid to invest in yourself, and being afraid to take calculated risks. I understand wholeheartedly because I've been where you are. And honestly, when you're going to a new level, I don't think that fear ever leaves, there's healthy doses of fear sign number four, a burning desire for change. So just like I felt in that 24 hours, I felt that there was something about that particular program, that particular person, that season of my life hit different, and you know, that your call to a greater purpose, you know, you can't deny it. People tell you this all the time, and you just shrug it off. And you kind of know you're a big deal, but at the same time you like okay, relax, bro. Because you ain't trying to get big headed, right? But I'm here to tell you that it's okay to accept a compliment. It's okay to know who you are. It's okay to follow that burning desire for change. Because Loki is probably the Holy Spirit that put it there. Okay, you you didn't just happen upon these desires on your own. It really is planted in you from the Holy Spirit. Before I answer today's episode, I want to leave you with two very important considerations for taking a risk. And these are some of the prompts that I cover in booster confidence masterclass inside of 24k vision, so I want to share them with you. And the first consideration I want you to consider your personality type. Are you risk averse? If so how does that actually play into the risk that you are considering taking? Consider your past triggers and patterns? What is your response to hard work to hefty deadlines to curveballs? Do you tend to run away? Or do you tend to stay in it? Do you stay in it too long? Like how do you work? What type of person are you? How does all of this factor in and I know it seems like very simple considerations, but they're considerations that matter nonetheless, because they're going to impact whether you ever actually achieve your dream lifestyle, you're not going to be able to get there without considering these things. And you really have to be mindful not to spend too much time lagging because you can miss out on opportunities that are actually God, because you too busy trying to search for a confirmation. And God didn't already gave you what you need. Okay. So if you are ready to take a risk and you are ready to change your life, I want to invite you to join me inside of 24k vision, the doors are open, and I cannot wait to invite you to become the next member of the 24k Club. I want to invite you to click the link in the show notes to get started. At least check out the page see what I've been talking about for all of these months. And if you know if you're feeling that pool, if these four signs were present, it's time for you to take a risk you owe it to yourself and you owe it to the future people that you are called to serve to take the risk Launch out into the deep end do the thing it's time to talk about what I've been loving product recommendations, shout outs to family and friends and overall gratitude. Let's get into it. Welcome back for another one. I've been loving this week. I have been loving the Waterman's and you can lift this candle from my best friend house. Just kidding it's target. But I mean what are we call and call target, Joe? Anyway, that's what I've been loving this week. How about you? If you enjoy today's episode, share the love share which a mama share which Auntie share with your best friend? Then head on over to Apple podcasts and leave us a five star review reviews help the podcast to grow. Well. That is all I have for you this week. I'll see you out in the social media streets.

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